Smile with your eyes

The key is to look vulnerable and sultry at the same time. It’s true that the eyes are the window into the soul. Not only do you want to try to peek into his soul, you want to let him see into yours. But when I say “vulnerable,” I don’t mean you should look weak in any way. If you look too vulnerable without looking like you know what you’re up to, it can turn you into a victim. No deer in the headlights! Basically, you want to smile with your eyes. Try to smile without using your mouth. Try this in the mirror, too. Widen your eyes and raise your eyebrows a little until you’re giving a warm, engaging gaze. One of my clients knew she had become a master at turning on her Cablight when she was walking down the street and got asked out right then and there by a guy she’d made eye contact with. He stopped her and said, “Come have a drink with me right now!”